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sheeon ([personal profile] sheeon) wrote2019-10-13 04:13 pm

Consent Issues 2019 Letter

Dear Consent Issue Creator,

Hi, thanks for signing up (or volunteering to be a pitch hitter). I'm very excited for this exchange and can't wait to see what you'll come up with. This letter is meant to be an overview of the things I like. Please don't stress about fitting my prompts exactly in any of my requests as I welcome different ideas with my requested pairings. I just ask that you stay in the general area of my likes (avoiding my DNWs). Thanks for taking a look at my letter and I hope you have an enjoyable time creating!

You can find me as [archiveofourown.org profile] sheeon on AO3.

EDIT: Added a small canon clarification on SIM!Tony's comics. (10/25/19)

Navigation:

General:

General Likes
Xcon Likes
Do Not Wants

Requests:

Peter Parker/Tony Stark (sex pollen, bad guys, etc.)
Quentin Beck/Peter Parker
Superior Iron Man/Peter Parker ft. Tony



General Likes:

Non-smut Related Likes
  • Casefic
  • Breakups and getting back together
  • Canon divergent AUs
  • Casual touching and affection
  • Character being very in another character's personal space (i.e. staring into each other's eyes, character grabbing the other by the chin, forehead touching, putting a hand on nape of neck)
  • Keeping relationship a secret (or having the relationship be discovered or no longer a secret anymore)
  • Pointing out why the characters are together/what makes them click
  • If it's a longer work, I'm always happy to get a plotty fic!
  • Physical grooming (i.e. bathing, shaving, brushing hair)
  • Characters being pushed to admit feelings for each other
  • Trust, betrayal of trust, loyalty, allegiances
  • Complicated situations where there's no real right answer
  • Drama
  • Dreams and nightmares
  • First times
  • Fluff & Angst
  • Getting together
  • Humor
  • Identity porn
  • Pining
General Smut Likes
  • BDSM and D/s
  • Rough or gentle sex
  • Dirty talk
  • Begging/humiliation
  • Biting and bruises
  • Vulnerability
  • Size differences
  • Bondage
  • Familiarity with their lover's body
  • Painplay without serious bodily harm
  • Multiple orgasms
  • Orgasm delay
  • Cockwarming
  • Overstimulation
  • (Semi-)public sex and anything related
  • Undernegotiated kink


Xcon Likes:

Here I'd like to say feel free to exclude or include any of my likes as you see fit in my requests. I also want to emphasize that while I had a limited amount of tag space, you're welcome to include anything adjacent to my chosen tags and anything in my likes list if it appeals to you.

My requests are all centered around Peter Parker. He's one of my favorites and I love to see him whumped. I'd lke to say that me expanding on a tag or having more suggestions is due to me just having more ideas that spring to mind (or wanting to clarify) but I'd love anything at all involving my requested relationships. The prompts I give are by no means the only thing I'd like. If you'd like to combine or mix up requests and ideas you're welcome to do so as long as you follow my DNWs!

This is more or less a more concise list of my nonconathon likes, which you can browse if you want more details related to dubcon/noncon (link). Completely optional but anything extra seen there that might inspire you is 100% fair game for this exchange.

For the xcon, the psychological aspect of the xcon is what appeals to me. I like seeing characters being pushed into positions they don't want (or didn't expect) with conflicted feelings and lines being blurred on both a mental and emotional level. As far as POV goes, I'm okay with either victim and aggressor POV. Feel free to go with what you feel would be the most appealing.

As far as sex goes, I like any combination of anal, oral, rimming, vaginal sex, breast/nipple play, handjobs, and fingering (in no particular order). I also enjoy slightly unrealistic sex. Sex that's unrealistic in terms of how much a character can come, how fast they can get it up, and hand waving that because it's magic/superpowers/alien biology is perfectly fine with me.

For vocabulary, I'm fine with most words used to refer to genitalia! However, if you're looking for a guideline for vocabulary, I have some suggestions if you want them. I generally enjoy more explicit terms than flowery language.

Words I enjoy are: cock, cunt, come, breasts, ass, clit
Words I'm neutral on: length, fluids, tits
Words I don't care for: cum, shaft, semen

Mutual feelings dubcon

This is more for requests that involve a mutually pining pairing being involved with sex pollen type of dubcon (but I can totally be down with more frantic/rough sex as long as there are feelings involved).
  • Pining from both characters
  • Reveal of feelings
  • Loss of restraint (such as asking for things that they are normally reserved about or insisting on having sex in an inconvenient place)
  • Guilty feelings (for not being able to resist the pollen; that they're enjoying it)
  • Having to go multiple rounds to satisfy the pollen requirements
  • Pollened character/Not pollened character where it's a test of stamina
  • Senses being heightened
  • Wanted it but not like this
Darker dubcon/noncon likes

These likes are aimed more at villains making them do it or villains xconning characters.

Arousal in both victim and aggressor:
  • Manipulated into enjoying it
  • Forced arousal/orgasms (+ multiple orgasms)
  • Aggressor being surprised by victim's arousal/focused only on their own arousal
  • Conflicted feelings (guilt, betrayal, humiliation, desperation, shame, anger, etc.)
  • Being dosed with sex pollen, aphrodisiacs, magic that makes them crave sex
Manipulation:
  • "Frog boiling" build up to xcon
  • Victim thinks they want it until it's too late
  • Aggressor withholding important information that victim finds out about midway through or after sex that causes them emotional turmoil
  • Mind games, emotional abuse, gaslighting
Clothing:
  • Clothes being ripped/torn or rumpled
  • Clothed/naked sex
  • Removing clothing just enough to access what they want
  • both parties staying clothed during sex and attention to it
Marking:
  • Biting or bruises
  • Come marking
  • Physical marking (making victim wear a collar)
  • As a way to display ownership or just as a result of rough sex
Dirty talk:
  • Degrading and/or humiliating
  • Unwanted praise kink (being given or forced to give to the aggressor)
  • Victim forced to beg for orgasm or pick what they want done to them
  • Comments on what outsiders would think of victim if seen in such a position
  • Aggressor gloating
Assorted extra likes:
  • Physical exhaustion; being used to the point of being overstimulated
  • Victim talking back and making their xcon worse
  • Cockwarming (both ass or mouth)
  • Aggressor treats victim like a lover
  • Victim crying (or trying not to cry)
  • Choking (due to blowjobs)
  • Bondage/being held down
  • Loss of composure
  • Double penetration


Do Not Wants:

General DNWs
  • Lesson/issue fics
  • Identity headcanons (race & gender)
  • Cheating/infidelity (See note below)
  • Poly/Open relationships (See note below)
  • Genderbends/sex changes
  • AUs that are not canon divergence (unless requested)
  • Bleak hopeless endings (See note below)
  • Non-canon typical violence in regular physical fighting
  • Character death in timeline of fic (See note below)
  • Self-harm & suicide/suicidal thoughts
  • Animal harm/abuse
  • First/second person
Infidelity/Poly DNW clarification: Two characters can be in a relationship together and xconned by a third party but I'd like to avoid knowingly cheating or poly within the relationship that doesn't involve xcon. As for ships that are dating in canon, I'd prefer that they've broken up amicably offscreen.

Bleak hopeless endings clarification: Ambiguous endings or villains getting what they want are fine but I'd like some suggestion that a nonconned character still has some autonomy and maybe could escape eventually instead of being broken beyond repair to where they just accept their fate.

Character death clarification:
Please no permanent death for MCU!Tony when the fic features him being alive but you can have Tony be dead (from his canon death in Endgame) in in a Beck/Peter or SIM!Tony/Peter fic. Otherwise, you can do whatever you like in bringing him back or just tweaking canon so he never dies at all.

Sex related DNWs
  • Detailed on-screen consent negotiations
  • Underage sex (15 or younger)
  • Choking. E.g. Hands around neck. Breathplay from oral or kissing is fine.
  • Bodily fluids. i.e. Scat, vomit. Spit, genital fluids, and small amounts of blood are fine.
  • Serious body harm in sex. Sex with violence on the level of face slapping, scratching, biting, or threat of harm with no serious injury (such as broken bones) is great. E.g. Spanking until ass is red = great; getting a black eye during sex = DNW.
  • Unaroused victim with no pleasure at all in non/dubcon. E.g. Forced/unwanted orgasm, shameful feelings about being aroused is great.
  • List of kinks I DNW: forced feminization, crossdressing, anal tearing/prolapse, mindbreak (see note below), all the way through, body mods, daddy/mommy kink, ageplay/infantilization, contract/24-7 BDSM, object insertions, ass to mouth, bestiality
Mindbreak clarification: If the victim begins to grow attached to the aggressor or enjoy the sex, I would like it if it was of their own volition even if they're very ashamed and/or conflicted. I'd like to avoid having characters lose their original personality.

Thanks for reading my Do Not Wants section! If you're confused about anything or would like further clarification, please feel free to contact me through the mods and I'll make an effort to respond in a timely manner.




Peter Parker/Tony Stark

I love how much these two care for each other and how, in my eyes, they're ultimately a positive force for each others lives. They have a lot in common with being superheros and having a shared love of science despite their age difference. They balance each other out in many situations and I love when fic puts that on display.

When it comes to xcon, I'd like to see pining of all kinds and/or realization of feelings that they didn't realize were there before. I'm also up for hurt/comfort over the xcon. I love tropes such as assuming the other person would never like him back or general guilt from either character about enjoying the xcon at all. I also like seeing both of them being worried and/or protective about the other getting hurt, be it through regular superhero fights or fearing that the xcon is wearing them out.

Relationship tags:

Any makes Tony Stark xcon Peter Parker

Any makes Tony Stark & Peter Parker mxcon

'Any' could be sex pollen (or similar) or bad guys of your chosing.

Quentin Beck makes Tony Stark & Peter Parker xcon

Quentin Beck makes Tony Stark xcon Peter Parker

Quentin Beck xcons Peter Parker & Tony Stark

For the Beck requests, feel free to grab ideas from my Beck/Peter request section if you'd like.

Iron Man Suit xcons Peter Parker

Iron Man suit makes Tony Stark xcon Peter Parker


Requested freeforms:

Sex Pollen — Long-Lasting Type

Sex Pollen - Character A requests Character B to sleep with them cause they trust them

Himbo/Bimbofication

Victim/s Wanted It But Not Like This

Accepting xcon in hopes of breaking aggressor out of possession/mind control

Aggressor is possessed/mind-controlled/coerced by outside force

Ashamed of Enjoying Mutual Xcon

Character Doesn't Want to Die a Virgin


Characters forced to choose between sex pollen and truth serum choose sex pollen

Character Forced to Rape Love Interest Tries to be Gentle

Character(s) Wanted It But Not Like This

Characters Incorrectly Believe They Are In A Fuck-Or-Die Situation

Cursed to only be able to think straight with something up their ass

Cursed to want cock

Cursed with recurring need to have sex


Forced to have sex to maintain cover

Forced sex makes characters in denial realize their mutual feelings

Accepting Xcon to Protect a Loved One

Accidental voyeur guiltily enjoys watching the rape

Aggressor doesn't know it's wrong because they normalized what was done to them


Forced to have sex for entertainment of third party

Himbo/Bimbofication

Magical/Cursed Item Made Them Do It

Mutually pining pairing forced to have sex with each other

Victim Mouths off at Rapist(s) and Makes it Worse for Other Victim

Victim Mouths off at Rapist(s) and Makes it Worse for Themselves

Victim used until limp and exhausted

Mutual Xcon - Penetrator Is More Upset Than Other Victim

Sex Pollen — Character Feels Guilty for Succumbing When Other Character Resisted

Sex Pollen — Only One Person Affected

Sex Pollen — Unaffected Character Doesn't Realize Love Interest is Sex-Pollened

Heat sex - unaffected bottom lets affected top to xcon them to save top's life

Something Made Them Do It

Something made them do it - characters had previously agreed not to act on mutual attraction

Something Made Them Do It - Public sex creates awkwardness with the observers later

Something Made Them Do It - Villains/Teammates/Observers Surprised By Their Enthusiasm

Victim is unaware that their attraction to other victim is requited

Sex pollen (group) — requested characters are particularly drawn to each other


Curse of Obedience

Comforting loved one while they are raped by third party

Character Finds Out Their Friend/Lover Let Themselves Get Raped In Exchange For Their Release

A/B/O - Only Aggressor is in Heat/Rut


Magically So Attractive Others Are Forced to Rape Them

Prompts:

Any makes Tony/Peter xcon related (just expanding on some given tags)
  • Character Doesn't Want to Die a Virgin: Peter pleads Tony to take his viriginty when they both think they are about to die.
  • Cursed with recurring need to have sex (and related tags): Peter gets hit with the curse and Tony tries to keep up (implementing toys?). Could turn into an Avengers gangbang (here are some ideas I'd enjoy!) preferably with a Peter/Tony emotional focus.
  • Aggressor doesn't know it's wrong because they normalized what was done to them: Tony's past friendship with Obie (calling Tony while he's shirtless in bed as one example) left him with not the best ideas on boundaries and he slips into inappropriate behavior with Peter, not realizing how questionable it is.
  • Magically So Attractive Others Are Forced to Rape Them: Peter is suddenly extremely attractive to every man that's exposed to him and Tony eventually xcons him (could also combine with "cursed to need cock" tag or related tags). Could also have the Avengers involved!
  • Obedience: Tony tries to keep Peter away from others out of concern but the curse has Peter take what Tony says in the wrong direction.
  • Undercover: Tony and Peter end up having to pretend that they are together for a mission and they manage to get themselves in a situation where they have to prove it in a physical way (alien locals have very open ideas on public sex?).
Beck or general villain makes them xcon related
  • Villain makes them have sex in an attempt to strain their relationship.
  • Villain xcons one to emotionally hurt the other or decides to xcon both.
  • Tony and Peter try their best to comfort each other while the villain is directing the sex to be rough.
  • Villain films the xcon between Tony and Peter.
Superhero suits xcon
  • Tony's designed for an Iron Man suit to be used as a sex toy for Peter while he's away. The suit starts malfunctioning and keeps going when Peter wants to stop. By the time Tony can get the suit to stop, Peter's been throughly overstimulated.
  • Or, Tony is inside the suit itself when the suit starts acting up and can't get himself outside the suit to stop it.


Quentin Beck/Peter Parker

Quentin Beck is such a great character for setting up Peter whump. He really messes with Peter's head in FFH and I'd love to see more of that but taken up a notch. Anything with Beck messing with Peter's emotions about Tony (be it patonic or not so much) or him messing with Peter using illusion tech is great!

I totally welcome anything that involves Peter->Tony feelings as flavoring if you'd like to write that but you can also just keep Peter's feelings towards Tony platonic or more background as done in the movie. With this request, I'm open to anything from "ill advised choices by Peter to sleep with Beck" to darker "Peter doesn't fully know who Beck really is as a person until it's too late" senarios with any consent rating (though I'd prefer that the straight noncon option still has some forced pleasure/orgasm(s)).

Relationship tags:

Quentin Beck/Peter Parker

Requested freeforms

Consensual Sex Becomes xcon

Rapist attempting to disillusion victim through xcon

Aggressor knows dubcon victim wouldn't consent if fully informed

DubCon to NonCon

Manipulation

Gaslighting

Abuse of mentorship relationship

Dubiously Consensual Sex as Unhealthy Coping Mechanism

Aggressor convinces victim that xcon is consensual

Forced Deepthroat/Choking on Dick

Defiant Victim

Victim Believes They Deserved Xcon

Victim Orgasms During Xcon and is Ashamed

Degrading Praise

Condescending Praise

Victim isn't sure if rapist or oblivious

Betrayal/Abuse of trust

Victim Unsure Of Own Consent

Victim Given Aphrodisiac

Ripped Clothes

Aggressor(s) Take Form of Victim's Loved One(s)

Character agrees to oral sex to avoid penetration but is penetrated anyway

Forced to beg for orgasm

Objectified and raped and treated like a fucktoy

Rape by Fraud/Deception

Rapist Aroused By Victim Fighting Back

Stealth Public Rape

Trying to Stay Quiet While Forced to Give Oral Sex in Public To Avoid Detection

Victim Filmed and Forced to Watch Footage During Subsequent Xcon(s)

Victim Forced to Praise Aggressor

Victim Mouths off at Rapist(s) and Makes it Worse for Themselves

Drugged Sex

Prompts:

  • Beck decides to sleep with Peter as one last laugh at Tony.
  • Beck has to use different methods than planned to get EDITH from Peter.
  • Surviving FFH, Beck's hate for Tony now extends to Peter after ruining his plans.
  • Beck wants Peter to lose that hero worship for Tony and tries his best to make Peter see otherwise (perhaps even using Peter's feelings for Tony against him).



Superior Iron Man/Peter Parker ft. Tony

There's so much potential in having a version of Tony interact with Peter (and MCU!Tony), espeically a version that's more evil and willing do things that MCU!Tony wouldn't. It would be great to read anything along the lines of him messing with Peter in that he looks so similar to MCU!Tony, but isn't actually him when it comes to the things that matter. For MCU!Tony being involved, SIM!Tony could use his feelings for Peter against him in some way.

I'm good with any consent level here (especially softer dubcon for Peter/Tony and darker xcon from SIM!Tony). I'd love to see any kind of Peter/Tony interaction from general pining feelings that leads Peter to sleep with SIM!Tony to Tony trying to protect Peter. Like my other requests, you're welcome to mix and match any tags from my Peter/Tony requests.

I have read the Superior Iron Man comic series, but that being said, I haven't read much Marvel 616 and I'm 100% fine with changing around comics canon to fit what you're going for. So, I'm totally down with an adjustment of canon where SIM!Tony is based in New York instead or changing other things if you'd like to have Peter (and Tony) in his universe but are not sure what to do with SIM!Tony's canon.

Relationship Tags:

Tony Stark | Superior Iron Man (Marvel 616) xcons Peter Parker (MCU)

Tony Stark | Superior Iron Man (Marvel 616) makes Peter Parker (MCU) & Tony Stark (MCU) mxcon

Tony Stark | Superior Iron Man (Marvel 616) makes Tony Stark (MCU) xcon Peter Parker (MCU)

Tony Stark | Superior Iron Man (Marvel 616) xcons Peter Parker (MCU) & Tony Stark (MCU)

Requested Freeforms:

Aggressor knows dubcon victim wouldn't consent if fully informed

Dubiously Consensual Sex as Unhealthy Coping Mechanism

Ignored withdrawal of consent

Victim Forced to Praise Aggressor

Abducted by Enemy and Turned Into Their Sex Slave

Rapist Makes Effort To Arouse Victim

Recording sent to victim's loved ones

Victim Filmed and Forced to Watch Footage During Subsequent Xcon(s)

Victim Believes They Deserved Xcon

Stealth Public Rape

Victim Mouths off at Rapist(s) and Makes it Worse for Other Victim

Victim Mouths off at Rapist(s) and Makes it Worse for Themselves

Victim Orgasms During Xcon and is Ashamed

Victim Treated Like a Lover

Victim Unsure Of Own Consent

Xcon is Punishment for Disobedience

Victim used until limp and exhausted

Forced Deepthroat/Choking on Dick

Forced to Wear Sex Toys under Clothes in Public

Rapist Is “Nice” So Long As The Victim Behaves

Abuse of mentorship relationship

Aggressor purposefully sex pollens victim(s)

Rapist attempting to disillusion victim through xcon

Rape by Fraud/Deception

Accepting Xcon to Protect a Loved One

Aggressor uses knowledge of victim's kinks against them

Forced to have sex for entertainment of third party

Rape as a Public Display of Ownership

Sex as an Assertion of Dominance

Victim's Involuntary Arousal Is Mocked By Rapist

Victim Given Aphrodisiac

Objectified and raped and treated like a fucktoy

Victim’s love interest unwillingly enjoys being forced to participate

Rapist Aroused By Victim Fighting Back

DubCon to NonCon

Forced Orgasm

Character A submits to rough sex to soothe an angry Character B

Rapist Reveals Victim's Kinks to Third Party

Raped for the effect on another character

Orgasm Delay/Denial

Victim Has To Describe How Good the Ongoing Rape Feels

Prompts:


SIM!Tony/Peter Parker
  • Peter hops over to SIM!Tony's universe and decides that any Tony (especially one that likes him back in that way) is better than no Tony at all.
  • Peter (and SIM!Tony?) doesn't realize the full extent of the changes until it's too late, or, he does know to some extent but lets himself sleep with SIM!Tony anyway.
  • SIM!Tony takes up a mentorship role towards Peter (similar to MCU canon) and goes in a manipulative coercive direction. Peter, with his crush on Tony, gets in over his head very quickly. This could be it's own AU if you'd like.
  • Peter falls into a relationship with SIM!Tony (maybe pulling the first move) only for the sex to get progressively rougher with Peter hesitating to say no becuase he started it in the first place.
SIM!Tony/Peter ft. Tony
  • SIM!Tony wants to take MCU!Tony down a notch and decides to go about that by fucking Tony and/or forcing Tony to watch as he takes Peter.
  • Victim's kinks tags: MCU!Tony is disgusted at himself knowing that SIM!Tony is acting out his darkest fantasies on Peter (or SIM!Tony tells Peter exactly all the similar fantasies he and MCU!Tony have).
  • SIM!Tony pretends to be a good version of himself while getting closer to MCU!Tony and Peter. Eventually the secret is revealed (maybe started by MCU!Tony realizing that SIM!Tony's way of thinking is a little too close to how he was when he was younger? Or Peter manages to sense that SIM!Tony isn't as good as MCU!Tony the more he interacts with him?).
  • SIM!Tony decides that not only does he want Peter, but he also wants Tony.
  • Tony attempts to protect Peter by letting SIM!Tony xcon him instead of Peter, but SIM!Tony decides he'll take Peter anyway.
  • SIM!Tony forces MCU!Tony to participate in xconning Peter alongside him.
  • Victim Forced to Praise Aggressor: SIM!Tony narcissistically tries to force MCU!Tony to tell him how much better he is than him (or has Peter praise him in comparison to MCU!Tony).
  • I didn't find a tag for this, but you're totally welcome to use SIM!Tony's suit for kink related activities for any requested relationship.